Category Archives: The School Years

Little Boy Blues

Q: I’ve met this guy, and we both have a lot in common, and neither of us have had a relationship with anyone, (we’re only teenagers) and I want to know what I should do if I want him, and how to go about it, where to meet, how to find out if he wants me too? Please help!!!
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Bi Any Means…

Q: Basically, I came out last semester, met this girl (she’s bi), finally got the courage to ask her out, fell for her, and we fooled around. I’m still in love with her, and we were friends with benefits for a bit before the xmas break. Now, tho, she’s decided that she can’t be with me because she thinks she kind of wants a guy right now, and that if she’s with me, she’s going to fall for me, become attached, and then I’m going to graduate in the spring and leave (and in august I’m leaving the country for a bit). I’m still head over heels for the girl, can’t get her out of my mind (we’re still friends, and I see her a lot. Makes it hard). I don’t know what to do about it. I want to just wait a month and approach her again. My guy friends say I should cut my losses and run, and my girl friends say I should hang in there, since the semester just started. I do love her a lot, though, and just want to see her happy, but I’d hate to see her happiness come at the cost of my own. I believe you should live everyday to it’s fullest, and worry about the future only when it gets there, because otherwise you’ll just be too scared of being hurt all of the time. Thanks for your time.
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HomeWrecker 101

Q: Me and this girl used to like each other and then we kinda lost touch a bit and she’s now seeing this guy whom I’m pretty sure she really likes. I still really like her a lot. We never did anything together but hold hands and cuddle. Shes so hot and I feel really heartbroken. Were both kinda shy and it was hard to make the first move. When ever I see her I get butterflies in my stomach and when I think about her too. Were still friends but not as close (different schools and stuff). I would really kinda like to tell her that I still like her and want to fool around but hmmm. How would I go about subtly letting her know how i feel?
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Hot for Teacher

Q: Okay, here’s the deal. I’ve been obsessed with one of my teachers for a very long time, but that doesn’t mean that I’m in love. I thought I was straight, but now I’m so confused and don’t know whether or not I’m a lesbian. I wouldn’t like to deprive myself of all those gorgeous guys out there, but that woman is driving me nuts. Please help me girls. HOw do I find out whether I’m a dyke?
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ISO Queer

Q: I am a 16 year old girl. I have never had a girlfriend. I always get these really bad crushes on straight girls. There is this one girl that i really want to get to know, but i have no idea how to become friends with her. Basically my question is How do i meet girls who are gay, and is it normal to always have crushes on straight girls, and How do you become friends with someone. Sorry so many questions, but i really need help!!
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Truth & Consequence

Q: Ok, I met this girl at school and she fell in love with me. Well, I told her that I loved her too but now I am dating this guy that I also go to school with and she is terribly jealous. I do not want to be with her any more because she does not want me to have relationships with males. Yes I am bi but I just want to be devoted to this man and see how everything goes. So, how can I let her down easy?
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I think I’m Bi

Q: im a teenage girl……..i think im bi-sexual…….i was wondering if i should ask this chick out who i know to be a full fledged lesbian out? if i do everyone will know about me……im not sure if i want that….
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Hello, Lezbo Robinson

Q: i’m soon to be 16, and there is an amazingly sweet wonderful gorgeous sexy tattooed secretary at my school who is 24. now see, i don’t even know if she likes me, she’s suggested hitting the gaybar to shoot some pool, but we’re basically just friends, and soon she’ll be leaving for california (i live in maryland) and she’s invited me to hang out in cali with her once she gets settled. i know i would completely fall in love with her if given the chance, but her age, and the fact that she’s leaving, poses a problem. do i do something about any of this or do i just leave it alone and let myself get over my enamoration of this goddess?
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Prom with “The Man”

Q: My school won’t let me bring my girlfriend to my prom. What do i do?
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Flakes are for Crust

Q: dear diva, i’m a college student and have been seeing this girl for a little over a year. & it’s been great … for the most part. there’s just one little problem: i’m super good at time management (i.e. i can coordinate women’s history month, get to all of my classes & do all the work for them, spend time with my friends, do a few other extra curriculars, & still get 7 hours of sleep) and she is hopelessly disorganized. she misses classes, doesn’t get her work done, and when we try to plan something together (like just eating lunch together) she’s either really late or doesn’t show up at all. i try to talk to her about it because i don’t enjoy waiting around for her all the time and i don’t think i should have to, but she just gets really upset because she wants to change but just can’t get motivated. meanwhile, my patience is wearing thin. what to do?
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