Category Archives: Sex, Sex, Sex

Scorn Porn?

Q: ok, random question but ive just come out (yay!) at the grand old age of 25 after years of feeling hugely suppressed I feel amazing! my only question is this and it probably sounds daft…. how much porn is … Continue reading

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Bed Death – It’s Not Just for Lesbians Anymore!

Q: I’ve been in a relationship with a great guy for 7 1/2 years. He’s a great guy, my gets friend and enjoy spending my time with him. We love each other very much. Sex is a problem. The last … Continue reading

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Libi-Do or Libi-Don’t?

Q: I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years. My partner and I are in a committed relationship. My problem is that our sex drives are completely different. I love her and love being with her but sometimes it seems like she is more interested in having a friend than a lover. I feel used and alone.
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Lez get it owwwwnnn…

Q: well i think about women all the time and im straight.i have this bestfriend that I think is bi-curious and I want to just caress her body just feel a women once, should I make a move or just say something to her????
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Oral Reports

Q: I have been with this girl for 2 months now, my first ever girlfriend and I am totally in love with her. Everything is perfect, she seems to be the love of my life but I still am having a hard time when it comes to sex. I love her a lot but still find it hard to give proper oral pleasure to her. what is wrong with me? Help me please!!!
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1 is the Loneliest Number

Q: I am totally out and identify Lesbian. I feel secure with who I am and what I want. I’m an activist in my community, and I have lots of friends. My dilemma is or rather problem is I haven’t dated many women….um…correction I haven’t slept with women. And to be clear I have not slept with men and do not wish to sleep with men. Ok what’s my point right. I fear that because I am out in my community (you know how they all talk), that when I finally find the right woman she might be confused and/or upset that I am not experienced. No I haven’t been telling people otherwise (that I’m experienced that is). I’m no spring chicken….I’ve been out for five years. It may seem silly but I haven’t tried to date a woman for sometime because I fear that I will totally disappoint her intimately. I guess I’m seeking some advice from you anonymously. I feel that if I had been out there in the first place I would not be so lonely now. I’ve been honestly looking for that special woman who is comfortable with who she is and yet also inexperienced but the problem is she tends to be extremely younger or older or worst a psycho. Thank you for your time.
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Good Thing or Wild Fling?

Q: I’ve been with my girlfriend for about a year now. I’m from NJ and she’s from Montreal. I moved all the way to Canada to live with her. I love her very much but I haven’t had much “playtime” if you know what I mean. I’m only 19 and damnit I like looking at other women but I don’t want to lose her! What should I do?
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Sideshow Sally

Q: Well, here’s my problem. For the past few months, I’ve had several straight girls come up to me and tell me that they wanted to experience what being with a woman was like. So, not being committed, I agreed to to giving them that first taste. Now, not long ago, a good friend of mine who I have been in love with for quite a while started questionning her sexuality. Also, on the occasion of us being alone together, she admitted to having feelings for me. Now, I am sick and tired of falling for bi-curious girls who end up cheating on you with a man. What am I to do? Let it go? Thank you in advance.
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Whole Lotta Lube’in Goin On

Diva has a Guest Columnist this month… MizScarlet, Heather Corinna from the fantastic Scarleteen.com! Diva wisely called upon the vast knowledge base of Ms. Corinna to answer this very important question. See below.
Q: I have been out for a few months, still no relationship, but I started to masturbate, I didn’t do that when I was ‘straight’ the point is when I cum, I emit a LOT of liquid. It’s not piss, cos it dosn’t have a smell but I’m worried about what will happen when I get a girlfriend. Should I tell her, how do I bring up the subject, when do I bring it up? Am I normal, does this happen to anyone else or is it just me? HELP!
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Love, but no… Luuuuuuuuuuuv

Q: Girlfriend of eight years cut me off sexually. she says she has no desire. Doc says she’s ok physically. Love her but love sex. What to do?
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