Category Archives: Friends & Queer-mmunity

I do. Do you?

Q: I want to know if, like you’ve had a friend for about five years and your a bi then how would you ask her to marry you? Because I am totally in love with my best friend and she doesn’t even know I am a bi. Thanks for reading this.
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Emphatically Infatuated

Q: I am 20 years old and I have a huge problem. I realized i have feelings for a certain women. I am trying very hard to avoid her and i am scared that she knows how i feel. The thing is that i don’t know how she feels about me. I know she cares about me but could she possibly be feeling the same way. Help me! I am confused and tired of these feelings i have for her (it is killing me). What should I do?
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Between the Lines

Q: is there any possibility that a girl would like a girl and not wanting to tell her, bacause of the society or something else. Im Asking that coz im in love with a girl for about 2 years and she has made some moves, but when i told her that i was in love she just said “im flattered”! And that was all. U think she just wants to play with me?
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The Morning After

Q: i went to a club and rolled on e and i ended up hooking up with my best friend . now is it like when you hook with a guy is it going to be weird tomorrow and who will i talk to about it . and i liked it alot and she did too cause she told me ….will everything be cool ?
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Bosom Buddies?

Q: I’ve loved my friend for such a long time now, but she’s never told me that she loves me, even though she’s made it very clear without saying the actual words. She just found out recently, and she didn’t seem to care much; nothing has changed, and she didn’t respond with a satisfactory (or unsatisfactory, for that matter) answer. She’s not very big on communication, but I still love her dearly… there’s another friend of mine who just came out that she was bi, and seems very interested. I’ve liked her, sure, but what about my current love-of-my-life, who just doesn’t respond in the way that I would like her to?
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Where Are They!?

Q: I have known that I am at LEAST bisexual for a long time. My attraction to women grows all of the time. The problem is….I don’t know where to find another girl that is like me. Another problem is that if I find a girl, how do I approach her? help….
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Love Lessons?

Q: Here’s the situation: Recently I have noticed my best friend getting “fresh” with me. She claims she is straight, but I know she is a bit curious. She told me she is scared about being with me in that way because she has never done that kind of thing before. She knows that I am a full pledged bi and she seems to be comfortable with it. My question is should I show her the beauties of this wonderful lifestyle or tell her to stop these childish games nicely.
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Blinders and Blind Dates

Q: I have had a crush on my best friend (let’s call her A)for 4 yrs. But I never thought there was any chance of anything happening really as she was definitelt 100% straight. A few months back she introduced me to a lesbian friend of hers in the hope of setting us up (we’ll call her B)- it didn’t happen. I am used to counselling A through her various boyfriend problems and having just broken up with the last one she came to me for advice. But SHOCK HORROR – A revealed that she ‘thinks she might be gay’ AND has feelings for B! I want to support my friend (A) because she has always been there for me but I am very jealous and finding this hard to deal with. What do I do? Tell A how I feel, keep it to myself and see what happens with B?! Please help me…
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Best Friends and Broken Hearts

Q: Kay…..I’m in love with my bestfriend and she knows this!!!! We’ve done alot of physical stuff together, but she says that she’s not sure if she wants a relationship. Now she likes this new girl and might decide to attempt a relationship with her and it’s completely making me so sad. I don’t know what to do. We’ve been bestfriends for a while. What can I do to make the pain go away? I don’t want to stop being her friend but everytime I see her I want to cry. Please help.
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Where Are We?

Q: How do I find the local lesbian bars?
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