Category Archives: Dating & New Relationships

Braking in Advance

Q: I am a lesbian and me and this girl like each other a lot. We want to get together and go out. But we are afraid if we were to go out and then something bad happens and we … Continue reading

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On the Shelf

Q:I have been w/ my gf for 9 mo. We’re in love & the sex is great…BUT this is her first time with a girl (we’re both 21) and it freaks her out. She wants to go on a break until we graduate college in May because her friends give her shit, should I wait?
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That’s Bull, and I ain’t Lion!

Q: Hi,I’m a Leo (7/31/71) and have recently met a Taurus (4/25/68) that has left me a bit confused. In person she doesn’t communicate very much and leaves me feeling like she has no interest in me. Yet, on the phone she is better and we seem to have a good connection. I’m trying to be patient and have asked her if everything is okay. She acts as if she’s fine and wonders why I would ask that (I don’t want to anger her by pressing the issue). Any advice will be much appreciated! Thanks.
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KY Runs Dry

Q: How can I meet women? I tried everything; placing and searching ads in the newspaper and the internet, going to gay bars I’ve even approached women and have gotten rejected. I’m feeling very sad right now and need advice. I live in Louisville KY.
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…something about a loveseat

Q: I met this girl. She lives in texas and we were talked every night on the phone for three months. I had told her two very petty fibs and when she came to visit, the fibs came out. I also told her I loved her. She left after six days. She was supposed to stay for two weeks. Well, after a few days I got an email from her saying that she just wanted to be friends for now and that she wanted me to wait and see what happens after the summer. I am not sure how to handle this. I truly care for her and I believe she cares for me, so what should I do?
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Pitch a Tent or Take a Hike?

Q: I’ve been seeing this girl for a few weeks. I met her on a personals page. Ever since we met things have been going great and everytime I see her she makes me so happy, but b/c of her last g/f she says shes not ready to jump into anything. We have been very physical with each other, and I find myself doing more and more things for her. It’s not that she’s not appreciative, but I sort of feel that if she can sleep with me, let me do things for her, and even cry on my shoulder why can’t she take a risk and try things seriously with me? I’m not seeing anyone else, and I know she’s not either, recently she told me to step back a little and stop doing things for her because it makes her feel uncomfortable…I am going to try and do that but I’m falling hard for her and don’t know whether I should just give up or hang around hoping she’ll work through her stuff and want to be with me. Please help.
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Patience GrassHoppah’

Q: I’m a young lesbian (19) and well, there is this girl that I have met, and we’ve been out quite a few times, with her other friends….and I really, really like her. I’ve told her how I feel, and also that I’ve never been in a relationship before…but that I’d like to be in one with her, but she never says much about that. Should I keep on pressing the issue to see how she feels about me, and what she wants, or should I give her her time and space, and just be her friend?
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Club Flub

Q: I met this girl at a bar we really hit it off. We talked on the phone a few times it was really great. So she asked me to meet her at a club one night I did, when I got there she was so happy and gave me all of her attention. After about an hour of a lot of fun and dancing she began to act like I was not there. She walked me to the coat check and told me she did not want a relationship and that she was really sorry. I told her that I understand and I was not looking for a relationship either. Well my question is I have not heard from her would it be ok for me to call her or am I going to look like a freak?
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F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Q: Ok, there is this woman that I am very much drawn to. I’d like to think that there could be something between us. She just gets me, I don’t know what it is. I just dont know how to approach her. I’m a pretty confident woman, but, I’d really like to see something happen between us. Any ideas on how to win her heart or attention? :) Thanks so much for your time and advice! I appreciate it a million! :)
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The Quest for Carol

Q: I have been out of a relationship for a while, and quite comfortable being single. I am in the process of moving to Nevada. I have a friend here in Florida that is moving there as well. It turned out that she and I were going to be there at the same time on pre move visits. Susan invited me to a party there to meet some of her Nevada friends.
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