Q: I don’t know if this is an advice thing, but I hope it is. I recently kissed my best mate, full on snog, and now my head is completely mssed up. I don’t know if I’m gay, bi, straight or what!!! Help.
Diva Says: My goodness… Some big questions for one kiss! The act itself doesn’t make you gay, straight or bi, dear.. It’s the feelings behind it, and where you’re more comfortable sexually, emotionally and intellectually.
If you find yourself more drawn to women in all three categories, then you are more than likely a lesbian. If you find yourself more drawn to men in all three categories, then you are more than likely heterosexual, if you find yourself equally drawn in all three categories, then you are more than likely bisexual. But labels are for food, darling… Finding someone you connect with on all three levels is a gift, and why question the origin of that gift simply by the shape of their genitalia?
Best of luck!