Q: How do you know if you are a gay or Lesbian?
Diva Says: Isn’t that question a bit self-explanatory? How does anyone know what sexuality they are?
It’s a matter of who you are both drawn to, and attracted to. If you are a woman, and the people you find yourself attracted to, in love with, bonded and connected with are Men.. you are Heterosexual. If you are attracted to, love, bond and connect with women.. you are a lesbian. If you are a man, and the people you are attracted to are men, you are homosexual. If they are women.. you are heterosexual. If you are a man or woman who is attracted to, bonds with, connects with or loves BOTH sexes.. you are Bisexual.
It’s not a matter of a decision that you make… Nobody wakes up in the morning and says “Hmm.. I think I’m in the mood to be judged, ridiculed, denied my basic human rights, beaten up, kicked out of my home, and killed on the basis of my sexual orientation.. Yes.. I think, today.. I’m going to be a lesbian.” I have yet to meet someone who, for whatever reason, turned their back on heterosexuality and “became” a homosexual. I knew from the very beginning that I was a lesbian… I grew up playing wedding with Barbie and Skipper.. I always assumed Ken was the house-boy or something. Heterosexuality seemed unnatural to me. It’s your innate sexual behavior… How do you know if you’re gay or lesbian? You JUST DO!