Q: I’m having trouble trusting my girlfriend. She has lied to me about messing w/ other girls but I gave her the benefit of a doubt and stayed with her. She lied to me once more, recently. Now every time we speak either I’m mad at her or she is mad at me. That’s not all. I have a best friend that I’m in love with and that’s in love with me and everything is going great with us. I have been best friends for a year now. I’m trying to decide if I should be with her or stay with my girlfriend. What should I do?
Diva Says: Get out. Get out now. For god’s sake – you’re both cheating on one another. What’s the point of staying? Right now you have a relationship based on nothing but old patterns of mistrust and abuse.
Girl, you already know the answer to this question, you’re just too comfortable in your rut to pull yourself out of it. Go! Off with you! Shoo!