Q: Please help I’ve been in a state of confusion for a few years now, I find myself not attracted to one particular gender. What I find attractive is a person’s personality and their looks, gender isn’t a main factor when it comes to me beening attracted. Does this mean that I’m bi or am I just totally outta touch with myself and totally confused??
Diva Says: Well, darlin’ — to me, it sounds like you may actually be… *GASP OF HORROR*… a sexually mature human being who is progressive enough in her thought patterns to see that the value of a person doesn’t lie in their pants, but in their heart, mind and soul!
Don’t question it. There’s nothing to “fix”. Enjoy it and don’t let anyone box you in. It’s wonderful to be that non-stereotypical. Labels are for food. Be yourself.